Muse-ings

Who is my muse? “Well, your wife of course,” you answer. True, yes, she is one of my muses, but chances are you probably are too. What?!? Let me explain.

I’ve always considered muses to be just something for old-timey poets and painters, or a subject only real for the Greek Gods of yesteryear. Until recently…

The other day I was flipping through my well-worn copy of The Essential Rumi (aka Jelaluddin Balkhi, mystic poet, 1207-1273), and read again the intro section summarizing Rumi’s life.

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Apparently Rumi led a fairly typical life as a religious scholar…. until he met a stranger (Shams of Tabriz… gotta love those names) whose company was the catalyst for Rumi’s transformation into a “mystical artist.”fire

Their souls combined, they merged, they had a complete spiritual union. Physical union? I have no idea, but I don’t think that much matters either way. What does matter is the powerful effect this person had on Rumi.

Reading further, I realized that after Shams died (ach, my heart!!), Rumi still needed someone to write his poems to… so Saladin becomes part of the Rumi writing picture. Then after Saladin dies, there’s someone else – Husam.

I was intrigued (surprised?) to realize that Rumi, to me one of the most amazing poets ever, always had someone to inspire his writing. I guess I had this notion that those Great Artists were self-contained capsules of intrinsic artistic inspiration, but really, they were apparently also human (imagine that!), needing something outside themselves to stir what was within.

iris1So….. if Rumi became so richly creatively mystically inspired through outside sources of inspiration fueling his artistic fire, is it possible that we too can tap into our greater artistic, creative selves simply through connecting more presently to what is around us? By letting everything potentially be our Muse?

I think about the times I’ve felt most creative, and those are the times I feel the most alive, most energetic, most hopeful, most centered, most loving. The times I am most present to myself and those around me. And usually I can link those times to a specific connection with someone or something that stirred me – my Muse for that moment. Important enough to warrant a capital “M.”

Yes, my Muse has been in the form of a lover (as one would expect), but often in a less conventional form…

Like the friend who unexpectedly shares her writing with me and I see new beauty in her and her words.  crayolas1

Or the butterfly that flits onto the flower I just planted in a client’s garden. 

Or the friend of a friend who wants to know when I post blog updates.

Or someone’s posting on my Facebook wall that makes me laugh out loud.

gitter_sleepingOr my sweet cat Gitter dragging a toy down two flights of stairs, dropping it at my feet with a gentle “mrreep” to get my attention while I’m working at the computer.

Or the manager at Panera who just gave me a free cup of coffee for no apparent reason.

Or you, because you are reading this post.  Thank you! 

Take the time today to notice your Muses… all of them … and appreciate them.

Tickle My Ivories

Music.  Let’s talk about music.  Listening to my iPod, of course, as I write (Carter’s Chord, “Song of Blue” is on right now).  I prefer my life with a soundtrack — to fully express and experience each moment.  Sometimes the music IS my life, sometimes just background accompaniment quietly adding depth.

 

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Yet music isn’t just a solitary thing.  It can be an amazing connection between people.  Here’s a song that explains me.  Here’s one that makes me think of you.  Listen to this one – it’s my offer of comfort (Faith Hill, “Wish For You”).  Or this other one to make you laugh (“…I’ll check you for ticks….”  Brad Paisley’s “Ticks”).  Or celebrate with me, crank up “All This Beauty” (the Weepies). 

 

My friend Kat is writing a book about the switch from silent to sound films.  Imagine for a moment your life as a film without sound.  Then add the music of your life sound and feel the starburst of energy, technicolor, surround sound.  A cold lonely rainy walk in the park becomes a balmy sun-kissed day at the beach with your dearest friend(s). 

 

 

ipod3Take away my desserts (trust me, that’s a big deal!), take away my tv, but don’t take my music. Give me intertwining harmonies and any instrument blend that includes piano, and I can survive anything.  Take it away, and I’m lost.  Music connects me – to you, to myself, to inspiration, to expression.

 

Take for example the day I was missing my Canadian friends Kat and Leah and sent them an iTunes playlist of carefully-selected songs from a new fave artist (thanks Jo and Lisa!), Kasey Chambers.  Only to find out that I couldn’t send playlists from US iTunes to Canada iTunes users.  For the first time since meeting those friends last year, I felt truly disconnected.  Cut off because I wasn’t able to share the music of that moment and words themselves just weren’t the right expression. 

 

Remember the mix tape from years ago?  You knew it was a big deal if a love interest made you a mix tape, right?  Let’s bring back the mix!  Bring it back into our relationships…with our friends (Canada/US communication glitches be damned!), our lovers, and just as importantly, with ourselves. 

 

My friend Rebecca (of Rebecca Plants:  http://www.rebeccaplants.com) got me back into making mix “tapes” (CDs) and for that I will forever be grateful.  Thank you Rebecca!  

 

Go on… try it… start mixing, for those days you’re so angry you could spit, or too full of gratitude to find the right words for prayer, or too hurt or sad to cry, or just numb inside and desperate to feel.  Let music flip that switch for you.  Let music celebrate with you, laugh with you, cry with you, and most of all… let music inspire you.

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